Discover your self

             

         

            DISCOVER

                             YOUR

                                      SELf

   

Written By.                                                Richie

                              Dedication

This Book is dedicated to God, for the inspiration of writing this book.. For the beginning

                           Discover

                                          Your

                                                 Self..

         Life is a journey which everyone is expected to go through, God created everyone and put in us gift and talent to enable us go through life with ease, this gift or talent is what differentiate us from every other person here on earth.. This gift or talent is our true nature "your self" 

         But the way the society is going, so many of us have put aside this gift unknowingly to us and start living the life style of someone else, this is the Major reason why most people find it difficult to succeed or keep strongly with success.. 

          In recent times, due to the advancement of the world, things that are irrelevant are the things that is see to be more important.

           The act of we discovery our self at a early and young age matters a lot, but most teenager's and youths don't want to pass through the stress of discovery their hidden gift or don't want to go through the risk and time involved in establishing this gift, but rather look for someone who have make time and have pass the stress in establishing his self to copy, thereby using the life style of that person to apply in their day to day activities as dey journey through life, but little do they know that life is like an examination but every candidate is given a different question paper.

             The way you response to life at this early stage, will determine how life will treat you later no, the day you start living the life of others, you become like a child who is yet to discover the reason for life, Apostle Joshua Selman once said, "if you work with the encounter of others it might be the cause of your downfall" that means you might not grow at all, or you may grow but keep strongly for every little achievement.     

          You see most of the problem of our teenagers and youth today is the wrongly application of the word "Role Model"

           The word role model is not for you to be acting and copying every single move of that person and applying it to your life,  some even went as far as, changing their way of talking and other things so as to match that of the person, in so doing u will fine them making so much effort to be like them, effort that suppose to be use in building them selves.

            Why do youth and teenagers of today fight so hard, make so much effort to be the second rated version of someone else, while they can use same effort, time and energy wasted on that other person, to be the first rated version of them self.

              You choosing a role model is not  bad,  role model is like a mentorship, your role model most have exhibited some characters that is inline with your growth.

 So you monitor that person and pick few things in the part way of his success and apply it to your life, to enable u climb higher, not you copying every single life style of that person. You see this is why most people fail in the music industry, fail in their acting career, fail educational wise, simply because they want to live the complete life style of the person they copying in their various field. 

             One thing we may fine difficult to understand, is that we might be singers or in the same movie industry but everybody have his or her way of doing things, that will draw the likes of people, if u ever feel unloved and the other more loved, just know you are wrongly applying your gift, you see envy comes from people Ignorance or lack of belief in their gift. 

         

          Another problem you will fine are caused by our parents.. I have come to understand that most parents have some worth draw their children away from their goals in life, most times I fine it wrong for a parent to chose a career for their children.

         Most parents today are into secret war with their fellow parents,and along the line, they want their children to do more than the children of the other parents, thereby choosing a career for their child, why most parent want their child to take after them in the career they are into.

  This is the reason most teenagers and youth at there, fail in their respective field and that same parent blaming them for their failure, forgetting they are the cause..

   There one thing you most understand as a child, be you a teenager or a youth is that your self worth is determine by you alone, you don't have to depend on someone telling you who u are, never allow any body do define your life, because if you end up with a boring and miserable life due to the fact that you listen to your parents, your teacher, your priest or some guy on TV then you deserver it. 

          If you really want to impress your family do it by being you, because is Bette to live a year as a lion than a thousand years as a sheep. 

          

            Another problem u will fine.. Which is the biggest of they all, is social influence.

   This have really affected most of our youth and teenagers, whereby they engaged them self with various activities simply because people are doing it.  

            We waste so much time in clubbing, womanizing and so on forgetting that this isn't all to life, we have come to the erroneous belief that we are all but flesh, blood and bones, and that is All, so we direct our value into materia things  

          Most of our youth and teenagers have been influence into ritualism, smoking, cultism and all other act, thereby ending their life suddenly due to their inability to recognize their value.

Most of them go into this things without any proper knowledge, but keep doing it because their mate at into it, that is why most youth and teenagers fine it difficult to make decision for them self. 

            You see, when your values are clear to you making decisions becomes easier, the moment you start believing in your self, you have a higher chance to succeed in any undertaking.

        

       Life is sweet and more enjoyable only if we have the ability to belief in our self and not to be controlled by people or the activities of the world.

 Believing in your self is one of the most important bricks in building any successful venture, let us don't dull our shine for others, we all have two life to live but the other one start when we realize we only have one. 

          Why do we waste so much time living the life of someone else, everybody was made with great potential which if build on, it could make you, a better version of your self.

         Our time here on earth is very limited,please don't waste it living someone else life, you see until a dream is well known to a man.. It means he hasn't started life.. 

        Go on a retreat,and think if the path you are following is really the right path, if not bring out that hidden gift of yours, and build on it, only then you will see, that life is sweet and more enjoyable only if you....

                      Discover

                                     Your

                                             Self.